Wednesday, March 2, 2011

hope

WOULD YOU AGREE, WE ARE LIMITLESS, PEOPLE; OUR MINDS, OUR MOST PRIZED POSSESSION IS QUIET UNSTOPPABLE. THE SECRET IS THAT WE CAN DO ANYTHING WE VISUALIZE. THEN IMAGINE WAKING UP AND BEING EXCITED TO GO TO WORK. FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE THIS IS AN IMPOSSIBLE TASK, SIMPLE YET NOT ACHIEVED BY MANY.
IT IS TRUE THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE HATE THEIR JOBS, IT ISN'T A QUESTION OF MONEY OR HOW PHYSICAL  THE JOB IS OR WHO THEY WORK WITH. ITS ABOUT THE JOY , PRIDE ONE GAINS FORM HIS CRAFT. IF ITS TRUE THAT WE CAN DO ANYTHING IN THE RIGHT STATE OF MIND, THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO CHANGE  FROM HATING TO LOVE OR JUST LIKING WHAT WE DO.? IT IS THAT FEELING "HATRED", YOU NO LONGER CARE, THEN ITS NO MORE OF A PRIORITY, DOES NOT  MATTER ANYMORE. THESE ARE THE FEELINGS STOPPING US TO TURN EVERYTHING AROUND. INSTEAD THESE FEELINGS ALLOW US TO NOT ONLY BE MISERABLE BUT ALSO MAKE OTHERS MISERABLE. SO WHEN THIS HAPPENS THERE ARE FEW THINGS YOU CAN DO AND ONE OF THEM IS TO JUST MOVE ON, HOWEVER IF YOU ARE NOT A QUITTER, THEN HERE ARE  A FEW STEPS THAT WILL BE  MOST HELPFUL.

  1. THERE ARE TWO CO-EXISTENT SIDES OF THE COIN. that means can't have the good without the bad.
  2. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF
  3. MAKE A LIST TO WEIGH OUT GOOD VS BAD. and by all means finding a way to turn most of the bad into good
  4. THE GRASS WILL ALWAYS BE GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. it is human nature to be ambitious, aways wanting something better or more. you cant have it all.
  5. WORK WITH OTHERS. use you co-workers to common grounds both positive and negative to make thins better and easier.
  6. FIND AND ESCAPE. not literally, there must something to do where you can be creative. the point is to find a reason to be happy  again and if cooking is what you love to do there no you should be doing it unhappily. 
  7. REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE THAT CAN HELP.you are not alone if you are united.

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